Sammie Peters- wife of Nigerian juju singer, Shina Peters, reveals she would rather share her husband with a side chic than lose him completely.
Sammie Peters recently celebrated her 60th birthday at an exotic event that took place at Times Square Event Center, Ikeja.
In an interview with Kemi Ashefon, she talked about her almost-40-year-old union with Shina Peters who will soon be 62.
Sammie Peters revealed that their marriage has been hectic as well as beautiful.
“I’m married to a musician and I knew from the beginning that women don’t allow musicians to rest. The journey of marriage has been hectic, beautiful, challenging but never rocky. I’ve never thought of divorce in the union and neither has my husband.
When asked if the women around him don’t affect their relationship, she answered;
“That has not affected my marriage. I’d always said and believed that I’d rather share my husband than lose him to any other woman. That has always been my stance even as a young wife. This is not to encourage my husband or other husbands out there to cheat on their wives, but I adopted that attitude to stay happy and not develop high blood pressure. What I cannot change, I pray to God and He answers me.
“Nothing my husband does affects me. My love for him is unconditional and nothing can separate me from my husband. I understand him perfectly, we love each other and he has always respected me. He has never brought another woman to our matrimonial home. I love my husband, I would always love him and I don’t think the love will reduce no matter what happens to us.”
She also advised women to believe men are “natural cheats” and they should just pray their husbands are respectful with their affairs.
She advised women;
“When going into marriage, ask God for patience. Respect your husband even when he has done something wrong. Let him have his food and don’t shout on him. Give room for dialogue and allow him to tell lies even when you know he is a liar. Moreover, if you can just look away and know that men are natural cheats, you would be at peace and pray to God to make your husband respect you and the home. Even if he’s cheating, pray that he doesn’t embarrass you and he should be respectful about those affairs.”
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