Nairabet owner, Oloye Akin Alabi has taken time out to advice Nigerian men looking for ladies to settle with them while they are struggling.
In a series of post on Twitter, Akin Alabi advised that instead of looking for a lady to suffer with a man, the man should take the necessary measures to evade suffering.
“The focus should not be looking for a woman that will share in your sufferings. The focus should be finding out ways and working towards getting out of the suffering, then find a woman to grow with.
When you get out of suffering and you can afford basic things like food, clothing, and shelter, you can look for a woman to build with. I’m not suggesting you should be Rich first. I’m saying get out of suffering. You don’t even like yourself as you are, don’t add someone else.
The energy on “woman matter” or “husband matter” is too much. That stage when you are still asking your mom for N500 transport fare is not the point when your energy should be on searching for a woman. Search on ways to better yourself first.”